"Live however you want to.
But know that one day you re gonna die
Love whoever you want. But remember that one day you are going to be separated from him/her
Do whatever you want. But know that you will be granted exactly what you have done
Know that the nobility of a believer is standing up in qiam to Allah
His sense of dignity is being independent of people"
(Hadis hassan)
One of my favourite hadith. This hadith was an advice, the best angel gave to the best human being. From Jibril a.s to Muhammad s.a.w.
Sweet.. We can see 5 points in this hadith. Very applicable for every one. But let's just talk about the last one.. Independent of people..
As i grow older :P, i sense something bad about Muslims nowadays.. Our dependency to people is tooooo high!
" without you, no way for me to be where i am today"
Familiar? Yup.. A common appreciation line given to people.. It is nice to be nice to people. But sometimes we need to careful with our word for it can affect our belief. Without realizing it, we are actually depending ourselves on that person.
Just if that person is not there anymore, what is gonna happen to us? Lost! Weak, depressed. Look.. Dont depend so much to people. They are not gonna be with us forever.. ALLAH DOES.
and what about when difficulties happen in our days? We start to find people to talk to.. Sometimes, people are not interested to listen to you. Just if you Dont notice.
But the only reason he is listening to you is becoz he is finding someone to talk to as well. And what happens? Atmosphere of complaining.
We are complaining about the most merciful to the one without mercy. What is wrong us? We might not complaining why is this happening to me, why is this happen or such things.. But as we are talking and repeating about what we happened in our lives, what difficulties we are going through today, we are actually displease with what Allah has decided to us..
Lets look to what umar alkhattab said to a person who love to complain,
"You are not getting any good from your complaining except depressing someone who are not actually care about you or you are making some one who doesn't like you to pleased with your misfortune."
(umar al-khattab r.a)
Something that we might not realize is, most people is actually Dont even care about us. And now you are complaing to them. They are not interested of listening. Plus.. Dont we realize that they are also a human and they went through everyday like us too, but just with different story.
They might have bigger problem than we have and now we are giving them more burden? We are depressing them! Dont think, just becoz they Dont open their mouth telling you about their problem, meaning they have none.
Some people are trying to be strong facing their problems silently. And easily we went to them to complain about ours! Where is the justice? Something needed to looked upon.reflect.
I am not stopping us to talk about our life.. It us our nature to speak out our story.and i am suggesting you to speak to the best listener.Know that Allah is the only who having both willingness and ability to help us.
We might have people who have money to help us having the financial problem but can be he is not willing to help us.
And we might have our family who willing to help us but they have no ability to help for some reason..
Then, to whom can we rely? Only Allah. That is the beauty of Islam. Allah have no personal problem that He need to think about.. So, He is free to listen to us! HE IS WILLING TO HELP US. Cry out loud to him! Where ever you are, He is the nearest! Even just crying the heart, Allah hears you :')
ABILITY? No doubt that He is the most Powerful. He Has control over all things.
So, what is it stopping you from finding Allah? What is it? Please, Don't, just because we Don't see Him, don't ever think He is not there. Don't, just because nothing has changes even we had made doa for times, doesn't mean He is not listening to you.
Not yet doesn't mean never.
Don't lose hope in Allah and stop our Independence to humans. They can neither give benefit nor harm to us.. Powerless..
Stop complaining about Allah but complain to Allah. Find Allah.. Find time to be with Allah. Especially in tahajjud, sujud. Build back the relationship with Him that we had left for a very long time. Back to our fitrah, attach our hope onto the mercy of Allah. We need Him.
Find peace in remembrance of Allah our Creator. Our hearts need that so badly.
But know that one day you re gonna die
Love whoever you want. But remember that one day you are going to be separated from him/her
Do whatever you want. But know that you will be granted exactly what you have done
Know that the nobility of a believer is standing up in qiam to Allah
His sense of dignity is being independent of people"
(Hadis hassan)
One of my favourite hadith. This hadith was an advice, the best angel gave to the best human being. From Jibril a.s to Muhammad s.a.w.
Sweet.. We can see 5 points in this hadith. Very applicable for every one. But let's just talk about the last one.. Independent of people..
As i grow older :P, i sense something bad about Muslims nowadays.. Our dependency to people is tooooo high!
" without you, no way for me to be where i am today"
Familiar? Yup.. A common appreciation line given to people.. It is nice to be nice to people. But sometimes we need to careful with our word for it can affect our belief. Without realizing it, we are actually depending ourselves on that person.
Just if that person is not there anymore, what is gonna happen to us? Lost! Weak, depressed. Look.. Dont depend so much to people. They are not gonna be with us forever.. ALLAH DOES.
and what about when difficulties happen in our days? We start to find people to talk to.. Sometimes, people are not interested to listen to you. Just if you Dont notice.
But the only reason he is listening to you is becoz he is finding someone to talk to as well. And what happens? Atmosphere of complaining.
We are complaining about the most merciful to the one without mercy. What is wrong us? We might not complaining why is this happening to me, why is this happen or such things.. But as we are talking and repeating about what we happened in our lives, what difficulties we are going through today, we are actually displease with what Allah has decided to us..
Lets look to what umar alkhattab said to a person who love to complain,
"You are not getting any good from your complaining except depressing someone who are not actually care about you or you are making some one who doesn't like you to pleased with your misfortune."
(umar al-khattab r.a)
Something that we might not realize is, most people is actually Dont even care about us. And now you are complaing to them. They are not interested of listening. Plus.. Dont we realize that they are also a human and they went through everyday like us too, but just with different story.
They might have bigger problem than we have and now we are giving them more burden? We are depressing them! Dont think, just becoz they Dont open their mouth telling you about their problem, meaning they have none.
Some people are trying to be strong facing their problems silently. And easily we went to them to complain about ours! Where is the justice? Something needed to looked upon.reflect.
I am not stopping us to talk about our life.. It us our nature to speak out our story.and i am suggesting you to speak to the best listener.Know that Allah is the only who having both willingness and ability to help us.
We might have people who have money to help us having the financial problem but can be he is not willing to help us.
And we might have our family who willing to help us but they have no ability to help for some reason..
Then, to whom can we rely? Only Allah. That is the beauty of Islam. Allah have no personal problem that He need to think about.. So, He is free to listen to us! HE IS WILLING TO HELP US. Cry out loud to him! Where ever you are, He is the nearest! Even just crying the heart, Allah hears you :')
ABILITY? No doubt that He is the most Powerful. He Has control over all things.
So, what is it stopping you from finding Allah? What is it? Please, Don't, just because we Don't see Him, don't ever think He is not there. Don't, just because nothing has changes even we had made doa for times, doesn't mean He is not listening to you.
Not yet doesn't mean never.
Don't lose hope in Allah and stop our Independence to humans. They can neither give benefit nor harm to us.. Powerless..
Stop complaining about Allah but complain to Allah. Find Allah.. Find time to be with Allah. Especially in tahajjud, sujud. Build back the relationship with Him that we had left for a very long time. Back to our fitrah, attach our hope onto the mercy of Allah. We need Him.
Find peace in remembrance of Allah our Creator. Our hearts need that so badly.
*zapp.. jazakumullahu khair..
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