done with group project!
sounds happy,..but always something we need to sacrifice with.. who does not happy when what we worked for days and nights finnally completed?
but one thing bother me.. i love my group members so much.. i had great times with them.. even that was the longest and most complicated project ever, i am always ready when was told to have a meeting.. just because i am happy to meet them. noor and Sally. yup.. i am mentioning their names here. because they are very great people i know here.. i mean, they are so kind that i cant stop myself from putting their names in my prayers.. May Allah bless Noor and give the guidance to Sally. Ameen.
and now, the project had come to an end. so now, i need to be ready of losing nice friends. i know, once friends, forever friend. but what i mean here is that maybe we will not gonna meet frequently anymore, we are not gonna spend a lot of time together anymore.. and all things like that.. they both are from iraq, and they speak arabic.. i am so happy when i am there with them and when they are talking to each other, i feel like watching an arabic movie.. which is cool.. :) and atleast i now learn few words in arabic.. i know what they mean before i met them but at least now i know when to use! :)
and then, i remember a lecture about happiness..
life is not fair but Allah is ..
everyone has the capable of happiness and everyone has the capable of misery.
our soul naturally incline towards Allah.. trying to find peace and try to find happiness. everything finds comfort from it's source.so do we. when the soul is incline toward Allah, our body is too. just like when we affected emotionally, our expressions, our thoughts and actions change too..
everything is the source of happiness and misery.
Rasulullah salallahualaihiwassalam once said,
" there are 4 sources of happiness.
1. a big home
2. good spouse
3. good neighbour
4. sweet ride.
there are 4 components of misery.
1. small house
2. bad spouse
3. bad neighbour
4. bad ride."
( hadith )
see those 4 elements, they are just the same.. it is just how good or how bad it is..
but our happiness should not depend on those things.
the coolest thing is,, Rasulullah salallhualaihiwassalamm, they one who mention that hadis, does not have those 4 but only good spouse.
yet, He is still happy and yet he was the happiest person on the world.
the point here is, in any sitution, we should not attach our heart to those things. because, we ll give those up anyway at one time. those things might bring us happinest,, but after all, we ll lose them one day..just like what i am experiencing it now, i am not suppose to attach my heart to them. BUT ALLAH.. if we have Allah in our heart, we wont afraid of losing anything.
just like Allah said in the quran.
" the parable of those who take guardians besides Allah is as the parable of the spider that makes for itslef a house; and most surely the frailest of the houses is the spider's house did they but know?"
(al ankabut: 41)
remember the time when Rasulullah salallahualaihiwasallam lost his wife, his uncle, and most people are against him plus people are plotting to even kill him.. he lost almost everything..
when we convert our need to our want, Allah will give it to us,, realize the point that we we says that we need that so badly, meaning, we literally said that we cant live with out it, Allah wont give us.. because we are saying that 'i am so gonna die if i dont get this'.. hey,, remember,, we have Allah... so what makes us think that way?
but at the point when we convert how we feel about one thing into ' i just hope to get it, but if that is not for me, i ll be fine' and we get it!
Allah will give us! when we dont attach our heart on to a thing.
get the point? let's back tract. do you realize like how i do, how many incident in life that happens so 'accidently' that make us happy and how many incident when we are searching for something, and we need that so badly, however, and we are unable to find it. but when we dont need it, we can see those things like always....
everything is about heart. what we have in heart do matter. the happiness in in the heart. suppose to. but when if is not there, that is why we are searching it. unfortunately most people seeking pleasure and happiness wrongly.. note that,, only by having Allah that we can find happiness. because that is how we are created is. Allah is sufficient.
walahualam..
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