TALK LESS, LISTEN MORE, OBSERVE

one of the way to be a better muslim is..
TALK LESS, LISTEN MORE, OBSERVE

that is what am i trying to practice.
people who know me, they really know that i m not the type of person who talk much
i am a good listener and a good observer
love to observe things. the way it tend to be, the way it flows, where does it from, and why..
i love to think.. i love to learn from the environment..
but,, bad thing bout me,, is i love to make assumptions..
yup,, i dont simply express or voice out whats playing in my mind.. but
these sometimes make me dangerous..

on this post, i would like to share n express out whats in my mind..
to be damn frank, i hate person with harsh words.
i can stay respect to those who bullying others, does not cover their aurah or whatever
but i cant force my self to respect some one who simply talk as they want..
simply condemn people, scream to others, judge everyone, mencarut as they could.
hey, please remember, your words, tour mouth, your tongue, your lips n your voice isn't really yours
its Allah's .. Allah lend it for you must be some reasons.  its a responsibility, Amanah!
PLEASE TAKE CARE OF IT CARE FULLY..

besides, i cant accept bad tempered people.
everyone has their level of patience.. i dont blame if he or she express their anger in stressful situations
but what i mean now is,, they who dont even know how to appologize..
hey,, whats the problem if you lower your ego and talk the the person you scolded and ask for forgiveness
if its really make you shy, send a note or message thet you've regret with what's you've done..
atleast this shows your humanity.right?
please,, control your anger.. i know,, when we re burdened by something hard n heavy,, its hard for us to think rationally.
but thats not an excuse to just express n let go your anger to anyone else.! they do have their problems as well!! try to not be too selfish!
if and only the person we scolded was really guilty,, n we really have the right to scold him or her..
yes,, we are permitted.. but try to control young anger.. no one is perfect ! this includes me and you as well!!
you can increase your voice but you have no right to put 100% blame on them!!
remember,, we human live our life like a wheel! we have no promise to not doing the same mistake as they who we scolded! believe me, no we dont have to guarantee.
so, please think n imagine you in their shoes..
SABAR! thats the key.:)

i hate people who do not know what promise really means..
when you dont know how to keep your promises, dont promise!
as easy as that! remember,, when you make promise, you are holding people's hope
please take care of it carefully! do just grab throw dont n break their hope..
you are crushing their trust on you as well

writing this is no easy
people may call me a judge by its cover person
i dont care.. Allah knows why am o writing these
i want to avoid these things and chase them away from myself
Allah hate people who just know how to speak but dont know how to practice..
i want Allah to love me!
He is everything
if i put away His love, why am i living here?
so,, i must try with his will to avoidd all these !
i will and i m on it!