we human usually, appreciate the things we struggle for than something that we get easily

THAT WHICH WE OBTAIN TOO EASILY, WE ESTEEM TOO LIGHTLY
IT IS DEARNESS ONLY GIVES EVERYTHING ITS VALUE

do we value only what we struggle for?
basically, yes.. but not necessarily ..

there are something that we do appreciate even Allah give it to us easily. for example, our family.. we do value our family members even we don't work hard to get it.

but, let's discuss the about the larger sector.
we value more what we struggle for. i agree with the sentiment.
why? from my opinion, its because we don't want to go
through the hardness again to get the same thing.
some more, if we really need to redo what we had done before,
there is still no guarantee for us to get what we want.
we worry if our hardship is useless

let's select an example.
a man involved in an accident
he was comma.
and when he woke up from comma,
he realize that he was paralyzed
the doctor said, that he only have 20% to fully recover.
he really want to get normal again
so, he exercise, take his medicine, watch his meal, pray, and mind his health
Alhamdulillah, Allah gave him second chance to live as a normal guy
since that, he really grateful and praise to Allah
he always careful in everything he do.

is that clear enough?
okay, what about we take another example..
we take a ready-born-muslim and a muallaf.
seriously, how many of us really appreciate this biggest nikmah??
most of us hold the title of muslim because it is an inharitance from our family..
we dont really have the spirit to practice, to proudly show that we are a muslim
we dont really have the spirit to do dakwah, we dont work hard to understand Islam better!
how about muallaf? they know, islam can not be easily get. 
they believe,, to be a muslim need hidayah from Allah ,, need rahmah from Allah
they dont want to return to their stupid life again!
they dont want to go back to the wrong track after give the light to find the real way!
so,, their enthusiasm are much much more better than us..
please feel shameful to them!!
please wake up and open your eyes nad heart,, our religion dont not come for fun
we are responsible to do what Allah ask us to do!

this message is for myself as well. 
i am not saying that i am better than you,
we both are same..
without Allah, we are no body!
lets make a change!