what i know about boy girl relationship?

assalamualaikum,, :) hi,,  i guess this is my first time writing this kind of post.
i dont think i will write this if no one ask me to do so..
they just ask my opinion.. so, i just write about what i know and not necessarily to be true.
please correct me if i m wrong,,

okay,, straight to the point,

love is unpredictable,
it can come and go suddenly
without warning

usually, we dont prepare before the feeling of love hold our hands.
and how to control our feelings when it appear?
okay,, i am talking from a lady's side.

first, dont think to much about him..
and,, we dont have to deny the feeling because it is really there
avoid hearing to love songs even islamic love songs because it may touch our deep heart
try to think, why do you like him?
ya , i know, sometimes, there are no answer for this type of question, but just ask yourself.
do you want him to be your husband?
if no, NOW,, FORGET HIM!
 that is only your nafs
its from syaitan that want you to forget Allah

if yes? wait until the right time,, i mean,, if you are still in high school, dont really care about the feelings
focus studying. but if you are 18 and above,
this can be the right time.. but maybe not.
if you really want to make him as your husband, then, control yourself,
only thing is prayer. pray to Allah, if he is the mr right, may Allah makes everything easier, but if he is not,
pray to Allah so you can forget him easier.

okay,, please dont do wrong things,, i mean, calling every night or days,
texting all the time, dating, holding hands, and everything that you cant do with non mahram
its okay to text sometimes if you want to get to know him better. but once you get his feed back,
if its positive, engage! if possible, do it with family,, but if not,, you still can go on by just you two,, engage means, a man propose a girl, and the girl says yes,
through out the engagement, both of you are still non mahram
need to mind the boundaries! if need to meet,, make sure go with mahram .. not with a little kid and dont go alone.
at that time, the period is for both decide whether want to go on into a marriage or not.
no need to shy if you decide to stop!. but make sure it ends in good and proper way.

if both agree to get married, then, make it faster..
remember,, in marriage,, respossibility and commitment is the first.,
make sure dont skip prayer! together give advices and complete each other.,
in the journey to get Allah blessings!
together to jannah!

wallahualam