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Monday, August 22, 2016

Things to Know Before Getting Married

Haha... Laugh all you want for me writing about this :P


Anywayssss


The points below were taken from the book -20 pieces of advice to my sister before her marriage- by the noble scholar Badr Ali Al-Utaybee. I just think the points below are important to remind me later on.. I did not copy all twenty for my own reason and so you go ahead and find the book. It is a very interesting book with many good points. So yeah, go get the book if you want to know more. Trust me, the details are just as important as an eye-opener. Thanks mira for lending me the book.


  1. Rectify your relationship with Allah and Allah will rectify your relationship with others


  1. To obey your husband in Al-maruf itself is a good deed


  1. Your feminine nature is from your greatest weapons


  1. Purity and orderliness testament of your lofty characteristics


  1. If mistakes or disagreements occur between you and your husband then submerge them in the ocean of love


  1. Part of loving your husband is to love those whom he loves


  1. Marital life is not communal life


  1. To pardon your husband is a noble quality and recognizing your mistake is virtue


  1. Do you know his right over you and your rights over him?


  1. Be one who advises, not one who criticizes


  1. Jealousy can be an evil Disposition


  1. Patience is the key to relief


  1. Supplication is the weapon of the believer


  1. Everyday be a new wife


  1. The quickest way to man’s heart : Through his eyes and his ears


  1. How do you behave when he is angry


  1. Marital discord itself is not a shortcoming but the way you address it is







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