Blessed Differently

Many of us complain about how we didn't get this and that. Many question why this happen to us. Many doubt that this should be the way.

Unfortunately, we are living in the age of comparison. Although people are stressing enough to be yourself and live your life uniquely, we still compare ourselves with other. As much as we want to be ourselves, we still get frustrated when good things happen to other. yes, when good things happen to others. 

How disappointing. Aren't we should all be happy on the laughter of the people around us? Yet we smile when we hear that they are struggling. 

some have a very good relationship with their family,

some have the best friend ever, 

some have the best state of health,

some have the best characters,

some have good financial stability,

some get good results in exams,

some get the best husband/wife,

some get excellent jobs,

some blessed with children...

Well, we all have struggled of our own. you know exactly why kind of struggle you are or you just have been through. And if you are grateful enough, you must be aware, which part of your life is a pure blessing from God. you know people around you are struggling with but you know for the fact that you are getting with effortlessly. 

If you think your life is unfair, I suggest you to get to know people to a deeper level. find someone in particular that you feel like he or she is living the best life, that you once which you are at his or her shoes. go to that person, and ask him if he would trade shoes. Ask him why on earth that he still feels like there is a better life?

Everyone wish their life would be better. but only some won't trade shoes. they do not have a perfect life. they are struggling themselves but they understand that life is fair. No one ever promised that there is such thing called a perfect life. They understand, although a poor is hoping for a wealthy family, the rich is hoping for a loving family. 

You got my point!

When you cry for something, never give up to achieve that something, but remember also, that you don't have to compare yourself. 

You know what you need and you don't have to look at others to search for what else that you want. Just look at them to remind yourself of what you already have.

That is called thankful.